Friday, March 19, 2010

Being Grateful

Sometimes you just need to reflect and be grateful.


This is my morning view from my office desk....


Don’t take life, love or friendship for granted.

Things pass, opportunities pass, life passes and we miss the love that is right there in front of us.

2009
I lost my 44 yr old brother in-law whom I knew since he was 15

I lost my husband and partner of 28 years
I lost my german shepard and running partner of 14 years

and we won’t talk about losing my shoulder



I say that because today when I thought I lost my adopted (brother in-laws) dog. The dog whom my daughter says is the only tie we have left. (of Steve and Mikie)
YES, the one I complain about all the time. I realized once again not to take things for granted. (dog was finally found 4 hours later)

Today was a morning at ACF I did not take for granted! It was clearly a morning filled with love, life and friendship.
I loved seeing everyone working hard and eating good.....
....I cook and serve, because I love to, I love to share and I love to give.
I don’t do things to receive anything....”I” received more than you can ever image....

And I am so glad you all had a horrible time and finally found out that my cooking is the worst! That makes me happy.

I don’t take Morning Mayham for granted nor do I take the love and friendship that it has grown into.

We are one of a kind! And I love and appreciate everyone there. (yes Dave, that means you too)

Hope everyone has a great weekend.

with love and appreciation,
Joy Marie

P.S. Bill, Mathew, Laura(who we should all be proud of for being so so good at a party last night!), Nick, and Mike we missed you today. See you all Monday.










Share life, love and happiness with someone today.

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Weighted


WOD
3 rounds (w/20# weighted vest)
50 walking lunges
100 air squats.
Time: 20:02

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Things in Common


What does leathers, bibles and motorcycles have in common?
Grace Fellowship's Bikers, Tuesday Night Bible Study Group.
What else?....
Tonight was my first night going and I meet a great group of people.
It was fun and educational. It was a blast.

Monday, February 1, 2010

New Beginning?





I thought 2010 was a new beginning!? When you think things couldn't get any worse....it does.
Or is that just one persons perspective?
After a string of events last year...this year was going to be different. How so? Are bad things really good things? Can tragedy work out for the best? Can what seems to be on the outside a lose or a gain?
I believe good things come to those who believe onto the Lord. And I can certainly attest to that. I truly believe I have been blessed ALL my life. Regardless of what people may see or even what I may see to be bad...really turns out to be good.
I'll stop the ranting and tell what has been the most recent string of events that "may" look to be horrible events. But I have found positive in each case.

Thursday, January 28, 2010 on of my tenants decide to cook using charcoal on the small porch on his second floor apartment. Did I say small, frail, hunderd year old house?
Friday, January 29, 2010, 3:00pm while home making way for a pool table I receive a frantic call "there a fire next door"
3:30pm the whole back corner of my two story apartment building is on fire.
4:30pm fireman are riping down clap board siding, knocking out windows, kicking in doors, tearing through walls and floors with saws as I cried saying "I just renovated that, I just put those windows in, I just did that bathroom over. - I don't have insurance!" A shock to all. I had always gone with what my husband said, that we didn't need it...it won't pass inspection, we won't get it. I had told tenants upfront when they moved in that it was their responsiblity to get renters insurance that I was not cover - everyone declined. I am now and will always have insurance for these apartments I have hired a contractor to fix them and I will make it a profitable business and second income. I have worked too hard on those buildings to give up now.
Thankfully it was got in time and no one was hurt and there is minimal work to be done.
Two bathrooms, two kitchen partial walls and flooring, two windows, porch floor, clap board around side of house. The worse was my favorite 100 year old tin ceiling in almost perfect condition! I loved that ceiling.... I guess it wasn't perfect but I still loved it.



All because of a charcoal that burned a hole through the corner of the house one night, the coldest night of the year while winds wiped around keeping that coal alive long enough to start a huge fire.


Saturday January 30, 2010 walking out the front door with a chair a trip and sprain my ankle...swells up... but gets better by days end.

Sunday, January 31, 2010 10:30am I get a call from my son...but I am in teaching sunday school,
12:30pm a call from my daughter.... "when are you coming home"...."soon"
1:00pm I arrive at home to see that look, you know the one, the look something is terribly wrong.
My son was in a car accident and was at the hospital. I got to the hospital and thankfully he was alright. They originally thought he broke his collar bone and his leg...but he didn't. He was just very bruised up. Unfortunately the new car is totaled.

Good news. I will have nicer apartments then I had. With insurance and leasing that say no grills, candles or open flames in or on the porches. AND heat must always be on, even if you are away. (another issue two weeks ago-frozen pipes)
Stephen will save money without a car payment for awhile.
Not sure what came out of the swollen ankle excpect to be more careful.

FUN STUFF HAPPENING!

I was home Friday cleaning out the dining because I am making my dining room into a pool room. I had told my husband for years that's what I wanted to do. I was brought up with a pool table and through college I played alot a pool hall on Central Ave. and the play alot of pool for drinks at the local pub. I never had to bring money............ :)
I found a dirt cheap table (too big for the dining room but it will have to do until I make the living room the play room instead)
and I was going to put it in last Sunday... but my string of events took place instead.


Thursday, January 28, 2010

Thursday, January 21, 2010

Being Angry


Being angry is neither productive or healthy. But I am so mad today over an on-going "problem"
The "problem" is... I don't know what the "problem" is.
The one who frustrates me is also the one in the past has given me healthy and productive advice like this.

“Whenever you go out of doors, draw the chin in, carry the crown of the head high and fill the lungs to the utmost; drink in the sunshine; greet your friends with a smile and put soul into every handclasp.
Do not fear being misunderstood and do not waste a minute thinking about your enemies.
Try to fix firmly in your mind that which you would like to do and then without veering off direction, you will move straight to the goal. Keep your mind on the great and splendid things you would like to do and then as the days go gliding by, you will find yourself unconsciously seizing upon the opportunity that are required for the fulfillment of your desire, just as the coral insect takes form the running tide the element it needs.
Picture in your mind the able, earnest, useful person you desire to be, and the thought you hold is hourly transforming you into that particular individual.
Thought is supreme.
Preserve a right mental attitude - the attitude of courage, frankness and good cheer.
To think rightly is to create.
All things come through desire and every sincere prayer is answered.
We become like that on which our hearts are fixed.
Carry your chin in and the crown of your head high.
We are gods in Chrysalis.”
- Elbert Hubbard

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

What a day for a day dream...

Todays jog was a winter wonderland. BIG, soft, snowflakes all around me. It was magical.
2 miles seemed hard the first mile but then my legs loosened up the second half for an enjoyable lunchtime jog.


"One-amred Charlotte"
21-15-9
Overhead Squats (one-armed)
SDHP
24.5lbs
Time: 3:03